People, mainly my mom, bug me. Quit talking to me. Every morning when I see my mom she is planted in front of the television. She has to say hello to me in this high pitched voice. I just want to pass by without the comments. I am not even to the back door and she still tell me to take a coat. Duh! It is winter. Every second I turn around or want to do something she says "You working on your homework?" I have a life and I know how to balance school and everything else. At the most random times she will saw these things. It is not that she says these little things but how she says them. I just says leave me alone and she still bugs me.
The other day she went through my things in the bathroom. This is my bathroom and currently none else uses it but me. I keep it clean and in an order I can find my things. I am missing some items now. I have the feeling she wanted to throw them away. I do not tell her what to do with her things nor do I touch them. Give me my space.
I have not one problem working with my dad and doing things. We get along just fine. I can have a normal conversation with him just fine. My dad knows how to take care of my brothers kid and the next minute my mom is all over my dad telling him what to do. The two of us could do just fine without my mom. My aunt tells me all the time that my dad gets pushed around too much by my mom and he never stand up for himself. For example: my dad said where he wanted to go for his birthday meal and my mom went some place she wanted to. It was not her day. My dad never stood up for himself. My dad would have told me to shut up if I would have stood up for him only because my mom would give us hell for a long time.
How do I tell my mom in the correct people do not like her or her attitude? One of my relatives said not to send a Christmas gift, but what does my mom do? She sent a gift and then brags about it to the other relatives. The other relatives knew not to send a Christmas gift. I do not know how many relatives my mom thinks has something against her.
My life would be different if I lived with someone different and grew up with someone different. So many times the tings around us shape us into who we are and who we will be. We can do something about that by changing the here and now.